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Skin cycling
has been the latest viral trend on the video-sharing platform, Tiktok. However, unlike other skincare trends, this seems to work for a number of people to get clear skin.

  • What is Skin Cycling?
  • Benefits of Skin Cycling
  • Skin Cycling Steps
  • Skin Cycling Routine: Morning Routine
  • Skin Cycling Routine: Evening Routine
  • Skincare Products Recommendations for Skin Cycling

What is Skin Cycling?

Skin Cycling is a simple method or regimen created by Dr. Whitney Bowe, a board-certified dermatologist, and scientist based in New York. The concept of the method is easy to follow and remember.

It is a four-night regimen of exfoliation, retinoid, rest, rest, and repeat. One cycle refers to the completion of exfoliation to the second rest night. Many who have followed this regimen have achieved amazing results in getting their ideal skin. They have clear healthy and glowing skin.

A typical Skin Cycle will look something like this.


Monday- Exfoliation Night
Tuesday- Retinoid Night
Wednesday- Rest Night
Thursday- Rest Night

Friday- Exfoliation Night
Saturday- Retinoid Night
Sunday- Rest Night
Monday #2- Rest Night
Repeat


Benefits of Skin Cycling


Easy to follow, Easy to Remember

The concept of skin cycling is so simple and easy. Anyone can do it and may start anytime. The focus of your routine is not only on the products and ingredients but also on the routine schedule and skin healing.

Good for Sensitive Skin

Several people with sensitive skin will claim that a lot of popular products do not work for their skin type. This is where skin cycling comes in because it allows time for the products to work and the skin to heal. The result is healthy and happy clear skin.

Great Results

This is possibly the greatest Tiktok trend out there because it isn't really a trend. It is something that really works and is sustainable to include in your journey to clear skin.

Customizable Regimen

The typical skin cycle is composed of four nights but depending on your needs, lifestyle, and skin type, your skin cycling regimen may be a bit different. You may need to rest your skin for more than 2 nights depending on the strength of the active ingredients you use as well.

That is the beauty of skin cycling. You can customize it according to what you need and what works for you but the concept of skin healing is still there.

Cost-Effective

In skin cycling, you typically will only need the basic skincare products: a good cleanser, chemical exfoliant, retinoid, and moisturizer. Given that you will not be using all these products every night, you will be saving a lot of money and spending less on skincare. 

You may have to add an oil cleanser/cleansing balm and some spot treatments or serums to your routine but skin cycling is not expensive at all.


Skin Cycling Steps


What are the Steps in Skin Cycling?

The First Night

The First Night will be focused on exfoliation. Chemical exfoliants will work best for this as we should already realize. Physical exfoliation is something you can do for your body but on the face, the more effective choice is chemical exfoliation.

The Second Night

On Night #2, you should use your favorite retinoid. Whether that is tretinoin or over-the-counter retinol, use the product that works well for you and for your routine.

The Third & Fourth Night

The next two nights will focus on skin healing. During these nights, you will not be using any active ingredients but use a lot of nourishing and moisturizing products to help your skin heal.

Skin Cycling Routine: Morning Routine


Do you need to skin cycle in the morning?

There is no need to skin cycle in the morning. Keep your morning skincare routine basic. In the morning, use a gentle cleanser, a good vitamin C serum, moisturizer and your favorite sunscreen.

Related:
How to Pick the Right Cleanser
Why you should wear sunscreen everyday



Skincare Product Recommendations for Skin Cycling


Cleanser

Celeteque Hydration Facial Wash 
Cerave Hydrating Cleanser  
Simple Moisturizing Facial Wash 


Exfoliant

Cosrx BHA Power Liquid 
Paula's Choice 2% BHA Liquid Exfoliant
Dermorepubliq 7% Glycolic Acid Skin Renewing Toner
+ful Salicylic Acid 2% Serum
+ful Glycolic Acid 7% Toner

Retinoid

Good Molecules Gentle Retinol Cream
Dermorepubliq Anti-Aging 1% Retinol Serum
+ful Retinol 1% Serum
Revitaglow Clinical Repair Cream Retinol
Klued 0.5% Retinol Serum

Moisturizer

Celeteque Hydration Facial Moisturizer 
Cerave Daily Moisturizing Lotion 
Face Republic Cica Gel Moisturizer 
Illiyoon Ceramide Ato Concentrate Cream 
Cosrx Oil-Free Moisturizer 



Photo Credits: Karolina Grabowska


Be private. Be humble. Be lowkey.

This is the Ultimate Guide on How To Be More Mysterious and Attractive. If you want to know how to act, look, be mysterious and be more attractive, start here.

  • Why do mysterious people seem more attractive?
  • Benefits of being mysterious
  • How to be mysterious and interesting
  • How to be mysterious in public
  • How to dress/look mysteriously
  • How to be mysterious on social media

Why do mysterious people seem more attractive?

Humans are naturally curious creatures. When you meet someone mysterious and you don't know a lot about that person, you get the desire to learn more about them and understand them. 

Almost everyone is posting every detail of their life on social media so it is a breath of fresh air when someone isn’t active or open on social media. You see mysterious people as unique and cool.

Mysterious people are unpredictable and exciting. They do not converse much or reveal too many things about themselves but they can surprise you when you get the opportunity to talk to them and find out about their interests, passions, and personal life. They are like a puzzle people want to figure out.

The attraction toward a person who is mysterious comes from curiosity and the appeal to know them more.

Benefits of Being Mysterious

  • You attract people
  • You seem more interesting
  • Your presence is strong
  • Your silence is strong and has power on its own
  • You have privacy
  • You are able to maintain your boundaries
  • You get quality friends. You don’t give your energy to everyone but only a select few.
  • You learn to enjoy your own company


How to be mysterious and interesting

  • How to be mysterious
  • How to be mysterious in public
  • How to dress/look mysterious
  • How to be mysterious on social media

How to be mysterious


1 Have confidence

In what you do and say, be confident in it. However, do not be cocky and annoying. Confidence is always an attractive trait to have so this should be the first step to becoming mysterious and interesting.

2 Be calm and have control over your emotions

A person who is calm and doesn't cause a scene or make a big deal out of minor inconveniences always has the upper hand and this person oozes mystery. When you have a good hold over your emotions and can remain calm in the face of adversity, you show an attractive trait that a lot of mysterious people have. 

3 Do things slowly

Walk and talk slowly. Act like you have all the time in the world. In order to achieve this, you have to learn to be organized and stay on schedule so you aren't always rushing and panicking about different things. Doing things slowly also helps make well-thought-out actions and avoid mistakes.

4 Listen more than you speak. 

Your silence is already power. Instead of bragging and talking everyone's ear off, practice being an engaging and interesting conversationalist. The first step to doing this is by knowing how to listen so that you know how to properly react and respond to someone you are having a conversation with.

5 Observe more

Avoid the spotlight and stay on the sidelines. Be observant and watch. Not in a creepy way, of course. Just be more aware of your surroundings and the people around you.

6 Stay unbothered 

A mysterious person has good control over his emotions. This remains the case when things do not go their way. If you are insulted, be calm and reply with a simple "okay" or just smile/smirk at them.

7 Practice your poker face

As if you are playing poker, wear a mask of mystery. Just as you have control over your emotions, do not reveal your emotions through facial expressions. Practice having a neutral expression.

8 Have a mysterious smile

A smile is a mysterious person's greatest weapon. When you smile, do not show your teeth but try and smile with your eyes as well. A simple smirk will do. Your smile must be puzzling, curious, or enigmatic. People won't be able to figure out what you are thinking or feeling even through your smile.

9 Keep your personal life secret

Mystery comes with privacy. Do not reveal too many personal details about yourself. You can take a step further and stay off social media. That way no one has access to what you are up to.

10 Don't talk about yourself

As earlier stated, do not reveal too much about your personal life. When you start a conversation with someone, especially if you just met, introduce yourself and maybe what you do but then steer clear from any topic about yourself. Keep your personal life secret. 

11 Divert the conversation to the other person if they start asking about you

If someone keeps asking about you, give them a simple general answer then ask about them. Keep the conversation away from you and talk about other topics such as the other person, current events, or even the weather. The less they know, the more mysterious you are.

12 Don’t vent/complain.

Be calm. When a problem occurs, venting or complaining will not solve it. Start finding an attainable solution. Mysterious people reveal do not reveal a lot about themselves, especially the negative side of things.

If you need to vent, do it with someone you truly trust.

13 Have an interesting hobby.

People may be surprised you are interested or taking up certain hobbies and this will make them more interested to get to know you. Start a new hobby or passion. It can be something totally out of your comfort zone or one that you have always been curious and interested in.

14 Don’t be readily available.

Stay busy with your own goals and priorities. Do not drop everything you are doing when someone invites you out. However, this does not mean that you should start blowing people off. When a friend reaches out to schedule a get-together, see if you have time in your schedule and let them know. 

15 Be unpredictable in what you say or do

Something that will make you seem more mysterious is when people find out something unexpected about you. Give them a puzzle piece but not the entire thing.

16 Be exclusive

Choose wisely when it comes to who you trust and befriend. Keep your circle of friends small. You have a VIP Program and not everyone is allowed access to you. This will make you more mysterious and attractive.

17 Use correct body language

Depending on the situation or event, it is best to dress and act appropriately. Do not attract too much attention to yourself.


How to be mysterious in public 


1 Stay off your phone

When you go out in public, all you see are people on their phones. To be a mysterious person, stay off your phone if you don't really need to be on it. Instead, you can read a book, have an actual conversation with whoever you are with, eat and enjoy your meal, or just quietly observe and watch your surroundings.

2 Don’t fidget

Fidgeting consists of small actions through nervousness or impatience. This is showing someone is uneasy or uncomfortable. As a mysterious person, you must be confident and comfortable in the way you act and present yourself.

3 Be polite

Have basic manners and be polite to people. Someone who shows and acts frustrated and irritated comes out as unattractive and undesirable. A mysterious person has good control over their emotions and also stays calm, even when things do not go their way.

4 Be funny/witty

When interacting with people, be interactive and give a good conversation. Have a pleasant personality and don't be a boring talker. You can crack a joke every now and then.

5 Avoid drama and Don't gossip

Don't insert yourself into a discussion or drama you were never a part of. This seems attention-seeking and desperate. These are not traits of a mysterious and attractive person.

6 Don’t be shy to ask for help or inquire

Be confident in asking for assistance. There is no shame in needing help when you truly need it. 

7 Don't be afraid to make eye contact

A mysterious person is always sure and confident. Focusing on eye contact when you are having a long conversation or simply asking for directions makes you and your words more memorable. It is a sign of strength and confidence. Looking down or looking around makes you look nervous and unsure of yourself.

8 Don’t look bored

Just as you shouldn't show your anger, frustration, or uneasiness in public, refrain from looking and acting bored. It is considered rude to whoever you are with or to whoever is hosting the event and it is unattractive to look at. If you do not want to be somewhere, leave and go somewhere else you can enjoy yourself.

9 Spend time by yourself

Do not be afraid to go out and shop or dine alone. Don't let it show through your uneasiness either. When you are happy and confident in yourself, being by yourself and doing things you want to is not a problem. 

No one wants to join you for brunch? There's a sale at your favorite store but all your friends are busy? Do you want to watch that new movie at the cinema? Go by yourself. Nothing wrong with that.


How to look/dress mysterious


1 Good posture

Aside from the multiple benefits that having good posture has to offer, it makes you look more confident. This helps with your mysterious persona because confident people can also be seen as mysterious and attractive.

2 Take showers and smell good

Be desirable and let people know you take care of yourself. Take daily showers, wash your hair when needed, keep up with proper hygiene, and use your signature scent to your advantage.

Related: How to Find Your Signature Scent

3 Take care of your skin

People are attracted to those who take care of themselves. Just like smelling good, it's also important to look good. Start a really good skincare routine that works for you. Make people wonder what your skincare secret is.

Related:
How to Pick the Right Cleanser
Wearing Sunscreen every day is Important

4 Good hair

You don't have to get a hair blowout every week but it's great if you take good care of your hair and use hair products that are right for your hair.

Related:
Best & Worst Hair Oils I've Tried

5 Have a signature scent

Choose your favorite signature scent and wear it. The scent will make you memorable. 

Related: How to Find Your Signature Scent

6 Have a signature style

This is not necessary and you can wear whatever you want. Having a signature style, however, is a good way to look mysterious because you will be memorable and always look good and comfortable.

7 Wear Sunglasses

On sunny days, put on a pair of sunglasses that frame your face well. These accessories help add a hint of mystery to your outfit. Remember to wear them with confidence. 


How to be mysterious on social media


1 Don’t introduce yourself through a Facebook post

Allow people to meet you in real life and get to know you. Keep them intrigued, interested, and wondering.


2 Don’t post personal information online 

This includes information such as your birthdate, where you bank, or where you do your groceries. It is not just a way to be mysterious but also a safety measure to keep your privacy.

3 Don’t overshare too much on social media

Mysterious people can be on social media and post but they know not to overshare every little detail.

4 Don’t connect with everyone

Just like how you should keep your circle of friends in real life small, you should refrain from following and accepting every friendship request you get. 

5 Stop obsessing over celebrities

There's an unhealthy line between admiration and obsession. When you obsess over celebrities, you focus and give more energy to them than to yourself. 

Related: We Need to Stop Idolizing Celebrities

6 You don't have to share your opinion on everything online

If you've heard the latest gossip or controversy, you don't have to create a post or video stating your opinion about each one you've heard. Again, if you are not a part of the situation or discussion, there is no need to force yourself into it.

Have opinions on important issues in politics, business, or other current events. Do not waste your time or energy on useless gossip.

Final Thoughts

Being a mysterious and attractive person may be your goal in life or it may be something you just want to try and experience. 

To be a mysterious person, it is still important to be yourself and not to pretend you are somebody you are not. You can change a few habits here and there but always embrace and remember who you truly are.

xx Bella

Photo Credits to Andrea Piacquadio via Pexels.com


There will come a time in your life when you wish to reinvent yourself and become a new person. It is a journey of recreating who you are as a person so do not be afraid of change. You can reinvent yourself at any age. In today's post, we will be delving into a few topics and discussions. 

  • What is Self-reinvention?
  • Why is it important to reinvent yourself?
  • Signs you Need to Reinvent your Life
  • How to Reinvent Yourself and become a new person

WHAT IS SELF-REINVENTION?


Self-reinvention is about becoming someone else. It is a transformation of changing the way you think, act and live your life. You become a new person. Ideally, a better version of yourself. Choosing to reinvent yourself means you become aware of your current status and situation in life. There is a lot of self-awareness and intention involved in creating powerful habits to reinvent yourself and become a new and better person.



WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO REINVENT YOURSELF?


Gain new skills

The tips that are given in this article about creating a plan on how to reinvent yourself involve habit creation that may push you out of your comfort zone. Along with this, you will gain new life skills that will hopefully help you in any future endeavors in your life.

Experiences lead to lessons and growth

Reinventing yourself will open you up to experiences that will make you learn more about what you like and do not like including your strengths and weaknesses as a person. This helps immensely with personal growth and lifelong lessons.

Get to know yourself and your capabilities more

Perhaps you are looking to reinvent yourself because you have never realized who you truly are or know your true potential in life. You will be surprised what makes you happy in life and what you are capable of doing and creating in this lifetime.

Try new things and gain new passions

Reinventing yourself is trying new things and dipping into different hobbies and activities.  You are becoming a new person and starting a new life. Some of these activities may spark new passions within you. That is why recreating your personality and life is an exciting journey to go through.

Become more self-aware

As mentioned earlier, there is a lot of self-awareness and intention involved in creating powerful habits to reinvent yourself. Self-awareness helps you realize what you need to change and what factors to consider in creating a plan, not just for reinventing yourself, but for many aspects of life.

Create positive habits

Habit creation is a big part of reinventing yourself because you are learning and embodying a new persona. The creation of positive habits is great for personal growth and mental well-being.

Increases self-worth and confidence

Nobody would choose to reinvent themselves with the intention of becoming a worse person. As mentioned previously, you gain new skills and get to know yourself better. This brings you more peace and confidence in who you are and your self-worth.

Self-fulfillment

Reinventing yourself is a big journey. At the end of any journey, you will feel successful and fulfilled afterward. You become a better person and possess powerful and positive habits.


SIGNS YOU NEED TO REINVENT YOUR LIFE


You Seek Something New

Do you feel like something is missing in your life? Do you feel or need more?  If you are seeking more and something new, do some self-reflection and self-assessment to determine your needs and create a "reinvent yourself" plan.

You aren't happy with where you are now

Are you dreading waking up and going to work? Do you feel empty or unfulfilled? It might be time to reinvent yourself and adopt new and positive habits. Do something exciting and outside of your comfort zone.

You have hit a plateau and are no longer growing

Your mindset is stagnant and bored and you become frustrated with the work that you do. You are no longer passionate about the things you used to love. This is a big sign you need to do something new and change a few things about yourself.

You feel stuck and unproductive

Perhaps everything has become routine and you are now living like a machine doing the same thing day in and day out. You are no longer learning and growing. 

You have become fascinated with other careers/lifestyles

You are daydreaming about living another life and being someone else. You have the power and ability to change and grow into a new and improved version of yourself. Stop dreaming and start acting on becoming that dream person living your ideal life.


HOW TO REINVENT YOURSELF AND BECOME A NEW PERSON


You have come to the part of learning how to reinvent yourself. Here are the steps and tips you need to keep in mind.

Be aware of where you are now

This is the point of self-assessment and becoming self-aware of who you are right now. In order to make a plan, you have to know what you are planning for and what your goals are in your self-reinvention. You can answer some questions to help you assess your situation.

  • How is your physical health?
  • How is your mental well-being?
  • How is your career?
  • How is your financial stability?

Example: 
I am not in the best shape.
I always have negative thoughts and low self-esteem.
I have a great, well-paying job that I love.
I am learning and becoming more financially independent.

Create a list of traits you want to acquire


Now that you know where you are currently, think about the type of person you want to be. 

  • What are the personality traits and qualities of this person? 
  • How does this person live?
  • How does this person present themself in public?
  • What makes this person the better version of you?

Example:
I want to be feminine, fit, confident, and well-spoken. I want to embody beauty, inside and outside of me and in my surroundings.

List 2-5 habits/activities you need to do to achieve each trait

This may be the tricky part because this is where the action plan comes to fruition. If you have identified the traits that you want to embody, do some research and find out what people who possess these traits and qualities do and how they live. 

Take some inspiration from them and choose activities you can easily start to do in your own life. Do not go wild and start a 4:00 AM morning routine cold turkey, give yourself time to get used to these new activities in your life.

Example: To become...
  • Feminine: go dancing, journal, do your makeup
  • Fit/healthy: eat a healthier diet, take daily walks
  • Confident: do mirrorwork, improve or pick a new style and positive self-talk
  • Well-spoken: read books, take classes or online courses to become a better speaker

Plan how and when you incorporate those habits in your life

Create routines that you can easily and consistently follow to incorporate into your life. Set time in your schedule to do the activities that you have chosen. This is the positive habit creation part of your self-reinvention.

Example:
  • Feminine: 
    • Dancing classes on Thursday night
    • Journal every morning/night
    • Do makeup daily
  • Fit/healthy
    • Make healthy food choices daily
    • Take daily 30-minute walks in the morning
  • Confident
    • Do mirrorwork each morning to start your day
    • Improve or pick a new style
    • Positive self-talk for 10 minutes a day and whenever you catch your negative thoughts creeping in
  • Well-spoken
    • Read 2 chapters in the afternoon
    • Take classes or online courses on the weekend

Set realistic goals

Reinventing yourself overnight is not the goal here. Reinventing yourself will take time and patience. Set goals that are timely and reasonable.

Create a Vision Board

Related: What is a Vision Board & How to Make One that Works

Make your own vision board to visualize your goals and dreams. This journey of reinventing yourself is intentional and as you set your intentions, you must visualize and realize them in your life. Remember that your thoughts have the power to create action and as you take action, this becomes the result.


Be patient and consistent with the plan

Don't expect to be a new changed person in the blink of an eye. To reinvent yourself and become a new person with powerful habits, you need to stay consistent with your plan. Be patient and do your best.

Document and journal your experience with your reinvention

Think of it like a little science experiment and you need to know what works and what doesn't. Write down how you feel or react to doing certain tasks, what you could do differently to improve and what difficulties you are experiencing and overcoming.

FINAL THOUGHTS

When you decide that you want to reinvent yourself and become a new person, always embrace the mindset that change is good. Change inspires the growth mindset that we all need. We may not realize it but as we live our daily lives, we are on this constant journey of self-reinvention. 

With the habits and traits you gain through your self-reinvention, you learn and realize more about yourself and the world you live in. Keep learning and growing as a person and be the best version of yourself. Believe in yourself.

xx Bella



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We all have life lessons to share as we get older. It is a beautiful realization that as we get older and experience life for what it is, we carry these big and small lessons learned in life. They influence us to become the people we are now.

Related:
24 Life Lessons at 24
25 Life Lessons at 25

It is almost unbelievable that it has been a year and I am finally in my late 20's. This post is almost a month late but nevertheless, this has become my little tradition on my little space on the internet and I hope to keep it going. Some important life lessons are repetitions from previous birthdays but I guess that just shows how some things are so valuable.

The Best Life Lessons

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1 Do not get in a relationship when you are lonely. 

Loneliness just wants misery. Focus on yourself and your well-being before making a commitment.

2 Do not fall in love with someone just because they give you attention.

A lot of people can give you attention but only special people can give you the respect, love, and support you truly deserve and are willing to stick by your side. These are the people you need in your life. 

3 Be more grateful, even for the little things. 

Always give appreciation and make it known to the people in your life. Keep a gratitude journal and make a positive habit of it. Shop the gratitude journal here. 

4 Consistency is the key to clear skin. 

Don't give up so easily because you think it isn't working. Skincare is not an overnight miracle. Have patience and be consistent.

5 Be humble. Be private. Be lowkey. 

With all the lessons learned in life, this is noteworthy. Being a humble person brings a lot of opportunities for self-growth and personal development. It makes you value action and results, rather than just words and bragging. 

6 You do not need a partner to be happy. 

Find happiness within yourself and even in the silence, when you are by yourself, you will be satisfied and content with life.

7 Set your boundaries and stick to them. 

You know who you are, what you value, and what you want. Do not allow other people to destroy your peace.

8 Cut people off if they don't respect you or your boundaries.

We are getting too old for toxicity and disrespect. You have to protect your peace and mental health from people who bring you fear and anxiety.

9 Healing is not linear. 

It takes time. This is the biggest life lesson any person should carry because we all hurt, one way or another, and choosing healing and peace is the first step.

10 Do everything in your power to make your dream life a reality.

One of the best life lessons on the list. We cannot live in fear and uncertainty because we are taking away opportunities from ourselves and not allowing ourselves to grow and fulfill our dreams. 

11 Real hard work pays off.

When you want something, you have to put in the work. Don't expect overnight success when you haven't even lifted a finger.

12 Confidence is important to enhance any outfit. 

You are a powerful and beautiful being. Be confident in the way you speak, walk, sit, and exist.

13 Silk/satin scrunchies are the best for hair.

They are so pretty and great for hair health. Say goodbye to annoying hair kinks and damage. Shop silk scrunchies set on Amazon or check out satin silk scrunchies on Shopee.

14 Great hair makes a great day.

Another important life lesson regarding beauty is that, aside from confidence, great hair can really uplift your mood and outfit for the day. I've always struggled with having healthy and soft hair so I'm staying diligent with a haircare routine to help transform my hair.

15 Journaling is cool.

Journaling is amazing and holds so many benefits for the mind and soul. Writing down your thoughts helps improve your writing skills, mood, and productivity and helps track your growth and progress in life.

16 Never give in to pressure.

When people are pressuring or guilting you into doing something you are not comfortable with, that is your sign that this person may not respect you or your boundaries. Do not put up with such behavior and leave when you need to.

17 Never beg for someone to stay if they've made the decision to leave.

Somebody's decision to leave is out of your control. When you know that you have done your best in a relationship and given your all but they still decide to leave, hold the door open for them. Then, thank the universe for whatever important life lessons they gave to you and move on.

18 Choose kind words.

When you talk to anyone and yourself, speak with kindness and love. Everyone is going through a silent battle of some sort.

19 Simple skincare works.

There is no need for a ten-step skincare routine or layering on seven types of moisturizers and toners to get clear skin. Curate a simple and effective routine for your skin type and skin concerns. Trends don't work on everyone.

20 Still, sunscreen every day.

Will this ever be not part of the best life lessons out there? Probably not.
Sunscreen is the holy grail of skincare and you cannot convince me otherwise.

Related: Why Wearing Sunscreen Every day is Important

21 Believe in yourself.

You are always your No. 1 cheerleader!

22 Do not fear failure. 

Learn from it. Some lessons learned in life are realized through failure because failing leaves a big mark on us. Always choose to stand back up and keep going towards success.


23 Embrace your femininity. 

As a woman, this is important to me and hopefully, more women realize it too. With all the lessons learned in life, embracing femininity makes you realize that you hold a strong, creative, warm, and nurturing power. Being feminine is not weak, it is the greatest strength a woman holds.

24 Practice inner and outer beauty. 

Just as you focus on your physical beauty through makeup and skincare, it is important to give time to feed the mind and soul. Read books, learn a new hobby, journal, get active, meditate and do activities that make you feel good.

Related:
The Power of a Great Morning Routine
Habits of a Confident Person
10 Ways to Remain in Positive Energy
How to Jumpstart your Vibe & Energy

25 Be smart with money.

Make smart decisions about where you put your money. Live within your means and invest well. Read books and blogs and study how to become financially savvy and independent.

26 You do not need children to feel complete.

This is controversial but it is true. Choosing not to have children will not prevent you from living a happy and fulfilling life. You choose what kind of life you live and where you put your energy and focus- travel, career, relationships. It is all up to you.

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Some Final Thoughts

These are the important life lessons I have gathered this year but there are more to come. As each day passes, we create new memories and have new experiences. Embrace the change as they come and cherish each memory and life lesson that comes with it.

x Bella




You should create and start implementing a monthly reset routine if you want to start the month right. Having a monthly reset plan is essential to an organized and productive month and it has many benefits.

  • What is a monthly reset?
  • Why should you create a monthly reset plan?
  • When should you do your monthly reset routine?
  • How to reset your month
  • How to Achieve Your Monthly Goals
  • Monthly Reset Checklist

What is a monthly reset?

A monthly reset does not have an exact definition. Ideally, it is a routine of planning tasks and activities that will help you prepare for the upcoming month to achieve your monthly goals and deadlines and to make your life more efficient and organized.

Why should you create a monthly reset plan?

Having a monthly reset routine will benefit you in the long run. The beauty of having such a routine is that it is a personal endeavor so you can include any task or activity that will make your life easier. There are no set rules for an effective monthly reset plan.
  • Helps develop and maintain positive habits
  • Starts the month organized
  • Goals are clear and set for the month
  • Keeps life on track
  • Boosts productivity
  • Be more prepared for the month
  • Stay on budget

When should you do your monthly reset routine?

It is best to do this routine a week before the upcoming month or at least the weekend before the new month arrives.


How to reset your month

In order to create a monthly reset plan, there are 8 helpful tasks that you should include in your routine.


1 Set your Intention and Goals for the Month

Your intention for the month should be something you truly want to achieve within the next 30 days. Pick one area of your life you want to really improve or succeed in. Let's say your career or fitness journey. It can be the beginning of a new project or business or a fitness goal. Creating a vision board can also help you manifest and achieve your goals.

Related: What is a Vision Board & How to make one that works


2 Create a Budget

This may be in line with your monthly intention or goals but if it is not, setting a monthly budget is still important. Stay within a budget and set an emergency fund while putting the rest into savings. Being financially savvy and independent is always a good idea.


3 Declutter and Clean

Start the month on a good path by doing your monthly chores. You should be cleaning your room or house, your devices, and online storage.
  • Complete your list of monthly chores
  • Clean out and delete old e-mails and spam folders
  • Organize computer files
  • Delete unnecessary files on your computer and cellphone


4 Brain Dump

When you are done setting your goals, budgeting, and decluttering, your head will be in a much clearer and more organized mindset. Now is the best time to do a little brain dump and list down all your great fresh ideas for business, work, school, and life.
Write down everything and anything. It doesn't have to look pretty. Great ideas usually come spontaneously so don't fear not being perfect. You will be surprised by what comes to you in the moment.


5 Plan Your Month

Grab your planner or online calendar and write down your goals for the month, important deadlines you have to meet, weekly tasks, events, and birthdays. When all those are set, it is time to include smaller tasks and goals.

6 Start a monthly tradition

If it is your cup of tea, start a little monthly tradition. It should be something you will enjoy and look forward to. It can be small and simple. As long as it makes you smile and happy, it will be a great addition to your month.
You can have brunch with friends, do a movie night, spa day, hiking trip, picnic, or go on a weekend getaway. All up to you.


7 Go shopping and stock up on essentials

Do an inventory of all your essential favorites in your bathroom, kitchen, and supply closet. See what you need to add to the shopping list so that the rest of the month goes smoothly and you don't need to do an emergency shopping trip because you ran out of paper towels or shampoo.
If your budget allows it, buying a new outfit is also a great idea to freshen up and update your wardrobe.


8 Reflect on the month through journaling

It is important to reflect and practice gratitude as the month begins. Allow yourself some quiet time to reflect on the month and remember all the milestones you achieved and all the highs and lows that came with it.
List down some goals that weren't met that month but that you are ready to continue in the upcoming month.
Do some gratitude journaling. Be honest in your reflection then write down all the things you are grateful for at the closing of the month and as you welcome a new month.


How to Achieve Your Monthly Goals


1 List your main goals for the month

When you set down your goals for the month, pick 3-4 big ones that are the top priority. These are the goals that you really want to achieve by the end of the month.


2 Create smaller steps or goals to reach the main goals

For each main goal, create a map that includes steps that will help you achieve the main goal. Make everything organized and plan it out. Be realistic with your tasks and timeline. Do some research if you need to.


3 Include the small goals in your monthly plan

With each week, give time to complete each small goal that will help you achieve the main one.


4 Set reminders

Get on your calendar and set reminders about the tasks you need to complete during the week. If you feel like it can help, create a countdown of the days before the end of the month when you should achieve your main goal.


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Now that you know how to create a monthly reset plan, you will be able to start the month on an amazing note and achieve your goals for the month more efficiently. Happy planning!

x Bella
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